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An Attractive Woman's Life

by Sam Fox

A personal friend from another major US city sent me an email about his roommate, and I just had to share it with you guys to give you an idea of what these girls go through. This is exactly why I have no problem going for a one night stand and am such a big opponent of supplicating.



It sounds like none of these guys had a backbone and had nothing more than money to offer this girl. I’m willing to bet that these guys just yapped on about themselves, their connections, their money, and didn’t take the time to relate to the girl and focus the conversation around her. None of these guys made her feel special. She has plenty of guys offering her money, so offering her money and gifts doesn’t separate them from any other guy, and she knows that they probably do the same thing to every other girl they try to pick up. And finally, I bet they all had that “OH BABY!!!” attitude that I just can’t stand.

Tasha is my roommate. She's tall skinny 6'1'' Polish blonde.

Tasha is 21 and she can't remember last time she bought food. She goes out every night and has a date literally 4-5 times a week. Sometimes she double books guys, one at 8 pm and one at 11.

The other day I come home around 10:30PM there is a car parked in my driveway and someone is sitting inside. I walk by, peek, some guy. Walk inside, Tasha is in the bathroom getting ready. I ask her if that's for her she says yes. Nobody else is home. I head to the kitchen, and find some coffee on the counter

Me: "Hey Tasha, is this your coffee?"

Tasha: "Ohh yeess...that's my coffee."

She runs into the kitchen and starts making herself a cup of *HOT* coffee.

Me: "don't you have someone waiting for you?"

Tasha: “Yes, I know, but he can wait, he came here at 9 o'clock.... i didn't get off work until 10:30.”

Me: “WAAAAAIT! WHAT? this guy has been waiting on you in our driveway since 9 pm? (it's almost 11 now)... why wouldn't he come in?”

Tasha: “I told him to wait outside...he doesn't mind. Hey Anthony, do you have cigarette?!”

Me: “WTF! yes, I do.”

Tasha: “Let's go smoke outside while i drink my coffee.”

Me: “You gotta be fuckin kidding me. There is a goon waiting on you to take you out on the date and you gonna have some coffee and smoke cigarette with me?! Hysterical.”

Me: “Where are you going?”

Tasha: “Well, Newport Lounge has ladies night, ladies, drink for free, but it's boring for me... He can spend money on me, we're going to go to Axis (~$15 per drink)..”

Cool...cool. We smoke, she finishes her coffee and leaves.

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(next day)

Me: "Hey Tasha, whose roses are those?"

I point to a dozen of red roses.

Tasha: “Oh those are from some 30 year old millionaire i met at the club the other day. He came to my work and brought those.”

Me: “Shitting me?! Guy met you, talked to you for literally 20 seconds and then came to your work with those?!”

Same evening…

Me: "Tasha, wanna go out drinking?"

Tasha: “Umm i need about an hour or so...I gotta go on a quick date with this guy…”

Me: "The Millionaire?"

Tasha: “Yes... I want to see if he's really rich.”

Me: “And where are you going?”

Tasha: “Probably Diesel (A VERY expensive restaurant)

Me: “Naturally you're not paying.”

Tasha: “Absolutely not. But I will call you in an hour and we'll go drink.”
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“A Few Days Earlier”

Tasha runs in happy as hell…

Tasha: "you gotta hear this.... i just made $500!!!"

Me: “What busy day at work? Big tip?”

Tasha: “No no...I was out drinking, and this guy has been talking to me for like half an hour. Then he got up and gave me his business card and said “hey why don't you take care of this drinks, I gotta run get my friend” and tossed five hundred dollar bills on the table.”

Me: “Oh...so drinks are on you tonight?!”

Tasha: “Sure!”

Me: “Hey Tasha, you gonna call him?”

Tasha: “Sure why not, he says he owns a yacht and wants to take me out.”

Tasha is Polish 7 and American 9.

 
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