The Power of Push/Pull
by Sam Fox
Have you ever scrambled eggs? There is a very specific way to cook eggs if you’re going to cook them properly.
You need to whip the eggs really well, with a little bit of milk, salt, and pepper (I always put a teaspoon of olive oil in as well). Take a non-stick or cast iron skillet on low heat and pour your whipped eggs in.
Gently stir the eggs for a few minutes until they start to congeal.
Move them away from the heat and continue to stir. Eventually you will notice that they stop the congealing/cooking process. When you notice this, return them to the heat.
Repeat this process until you can no longer stir the eggs, per se, but have to fold them. Add any onions, peppers, meat, or cheese at this point, cook a few more moments and serve.
You will find your eggs are very soft, full of flavor, and just better when you cook them this way.
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Great Game Advice, Socrates
It is great game advice, you bastard! When you’re picking up a woman at a bar or cafe or movie or the mall or a restaurant (you get the picture) you are cooking eggs. Both literally and metaphorically.The technique described to cooking eggs above can be used not only the morning after the bang, but during the pick up as well!
It’s called push/pull and it is powerful shit.
Push/Pull is the technique you as a man use to amplify attraction and lead the interaction. It can be described easily as give and take. There are a variety of ways for you to use push/pull during a pick up and all of them are pretty easy once you get the hang of it. Which makes your return on investment pretty damn high.
In Conversation
Push/Pull is 100% body language. All the way. You can lead the conversation in a certain direction by using push/pull body language as a sort of reward/punishment system. When the conversation is escalating in the direction you need it to in order to secure a notch – that is, you’re connecting – open your body language to her to show that you are receptive to the topic and interested in her. If she shifts the conversation away from where you want it to go, shut off your body language to her, execute a backturn – something.
Opening your body language to her being a pull (pulling her in); closing your body language being a push (pushing her away).
When she’s doing well you will still want to push/pull, but slightly. This will amplify sexual attraction through the course of conversation. As the conversation escalates, divert your eyes to something else – a TV, another woman, outside, anything. Eventually let your gaze wander back over to her and smile as though you were never absent from conversation.
This is how you lead a conversation.
Physical Push/Pull
One of the last pieces of push/pull is physically. During the pickup attempt you should be escalating kino as it is. Increasing your touch. However it is equally important that you also strategically withdraw your touch.
Occasionally break physical contact from her first, before she does it to you. This will keep her from taking your touch for granted and will make her enjoy it when she has it. You should also, when you get to kissing, make sure that you break off the kissing first. By ending the kiss first, it will make her want more from you thereby increasing her sexual attraction to you.
All in all, push/pull is a very powerful pick-up concept and every successful player takes advantage of it. If you don’t know how to increase her interested and move the interaction, or you find yourself getting stalled at a certain point in most of your pick-ups, then chances are you aren’t using push/pull techniques to their fullest potential.
